My wife has starved me sex for two years – Man cries out, seeks advice

Please hide my identity. I will make my story short. My wife knew from day one that my business wasn't that strong. We got married and at least a day, I keep money, some days, I don't. When people that I took loan came calling, my wife took the one million from her father as loan and paid the bank.


My wife has a good job. I am still striving to get my feet firm. My marriage is 9 years and we stopped having sex since two years now. Her problem with me is that she is carrying the whole bills while I keep giving excuses that business isn't working? She keep telling me that since 9years of marriage that I have not even bought her even a call card and she knows how bad it is for me.

She doesn't even sleep in our matrimonial bed anymore. She stays in the guest room.we have 2 kids. I am feeling my marriage has lost its taste. A marriage that is 2 years without sex. It's not that I don't make advances, but she will do throw my hands away and walk out on me. If it gets better for me tomorrow, how will I forgive her for starving me of sex? I do house work, I wash, cook and clean.


She told me to stop deceiving myself, that we have a nanny, so I should stop doing her work for her. I am trying my best. The most shocking part is that for this two years of no sex, she only greets me, no more talking of other things at all. She stock the house because of the children, not for me.

I feel we both should go our separate ways because my wife no more even have my number on her phone. She stored it with husband before, but these days when I call her line, my number come out without any name. I feel the marriage taste have gone sour because I cannot provide for my family. She is 40 years , I am 47 years.