What I Did To A 17-year-old Girl Who Asked Me For Sex on Facebook [Must Read]

Sometime last year, a girl of 17, asked me out on Facebook. She was all over me in the inbox; always trying to catch my attention. When I pushed further to know what she really wanted, she told me she'd want me to date her. At some point she sounded desperate. I went through her timeline and saw that she was just a child; looked like a highborn.

She pushed and pushed. I just ignored, and sometimes I checked up on here.

She stays in same state with me but not same town. So she fixed a date with me.  I was surprised. Female youngling of 17 having the courage to fix a date with her uncle. Lol.

I didn't go.
She kept on pestering. She promised to give me whatever I wanted(sex inclusive), and I knew she'd have done that if I gave in, because like I mentioned earlier, she's a highborn.

So I visited her town of residence one day for an engagement, told her about it. We finally met. Talked for 2 hours.

What did I do?
I sat her down and talked sense into her like a big brother. Admonished her to face her studies and leave boys, at least be done with secondary school and get into the university.

At least get to age 19 or 20 and be emotionally mature and be purposive..

After that day, she totally stopped talking about it. Since then we related like mentor - protege. I just guide her through her life and her endeavours as much as I can..

To my point.
Fortunately for her, I am a good guy. There are guys who would have messed her; use her like a sex toy; exploit her financially and materially. And this will lead to her emotional, educational, and overall unproductivity.

The keyword here is that she was NAIVE and UNDERAGED.

I try to find a way to understand mature men who date and have sex with teenagers. It beats me down. And hey, stop the from 18 is an adult na. It's not just about age, but maturity.

If you're gonna find a girl attractive because she's naive and underaged, you're a manipulator. You're abusive. You're being irresponsible.

Because you're exploiting her innocence; her sincere ignorance and immaturity..

Stay away from teenagers, secondary school students, and naive girls, as a mature man.

If any of such girls approach you.
See them like your daughter, instead of giving her your penis, give her a pen..
Instead of touching her boobs, give her a book..
Guide her, help her fix her life. Look away from her pant and bra.

A lot of folks might say, after all many of us had our first love while we were teenagers. That's a different case. We were in love with a fellow naive member of the opposite sex. It's better than having a 40 year old man date and have sex with an eighteen year old girl.

Aside the underage deal breaker..
Whether a woman be 17 or 25, stay away from immature women. I know them when I meet them. They are still evolving. They are still naive, they don't know what they want yet, they don't really have standards..
So they'll take whatever you give, they'll give you whatever you seek, they'll do anything to please you even if it means sex every hour. They just lack a sense of self esteem.

Don't exploit their weakness.
Instead help them. Build them.
Forget sex and romance with them.

I've done this a lot. I've met girls I knew that if I just opened up my mouth to woo them and even ask for sex, they'd have obliged, but no, I did not..
Because I knew they'd give in out of naivety, self pity, and need for validation.

I find it highly irresponsible for any man to date or even sleep with a secondary school student; an underaged girl; or a naive woman; even if she's 30.

This is one way to know abusive men.
They normally go for women they are far older than, some of them. They go for naive women..
Because their power to abuse and manipulate you is in your ignorance..

God help all the corpers, teachers, and mature men who date and have sex with secondary school students..