OPINION: "He hid his marital status from me" – Enough is Enough!

As written by Cynthia

These daily slang by some single ladies these days don't only sucks, but it's getting irritating! Please it's high time you people drop it and try your hands on another thing! I said drop it and flush it down the toilet!

  This slang " he hid his marital status form me, I have been with him for 2years , 9 months and never knew he is married, now I am pregnant, told him about it, he stopped picking my call, I made enquiries and found out he is married with kids. He lied to me.

I am tired of such bull craps of lies, try something else on me, a new slang will work on me not these old ones anymore! Who the hell are you people trying to wash brain? My own or who's? their are no perfect liar, as far as I know, if you are very vigilant and articulate, you will notice his fishy moves before the worst happens. You all get blinded by money and forget what you are supposed to do?

Stupidity is like bumping into a wall all the time. After a while you get tired of it and try to look the situation over and see if there’s a doorway somewhere. I think most people eventually do look for the doorway and stop bumping into the wall.

When you are in a relationship, and you don't know anything about the families of a man who claimed to be single, you are sitting on a long thing! Their is a difference between a young lady dating a married man and she knows from the first place and she isn't bothered knowing about his family because he was open to her, so the young woman is there to give him pleasure, happiness and eat his money because one day it will all end and everyone goes their way, than a young lady who says she is dating a single guy for years but don't even get to see his family members for a day and he is there promising you heavens and earth and you blindly sat like a fool till the stupidity dawns on you and waking up, he turns to be married for years. Stop the lies, I don't want to believe that anymore!

Stop such lives, the world is not blind anymore! We are living in a crazy world, so have some atom of craziness and go make some findings and stop behaving like someone who didn't suck their mothers breast properly! Once his phone is on silent when you are with him, start suspecting every of his moves, if you see you can't put up with his secrecy, start getting out immediately.

That lie of "I love having my phone on silent in a broad day light" by some men and women should stop. Putting your phone on silent at night should be understandable because of the sound waking one up from sleep at the middle of the  night! But on a broad daily light, don't believe such hypocrites please.

Some ladies fall into deep pits, with their eyes so wide open and claim they are in love. You knew he is married and you allowed him get into you raw, without condoms, what were you thinking? That you won't get pregnant or he will marry you when the test turns out positive, which one of them? How pathetic and gullible some people reason!

Why must you even allow a man who hasn't defined where the relationship is heading to sleep with you without condoms? Why must you take such risk ? Why must you allow a man who you are not sure of his health status to sleep with you without condoms, with all these diseases flying up and down,are people not scared of death anymore that anything goes these days? Shameless it sounds .

For me to feel pity for you in your condition? Some young ladies have ruined their dreams because of the stupid choices they made! If some precautions were taken by them, they would have being touching the skies by now. These days unwanted pregnancies are now celebrated . These days baby mamas is the new tags. Both people who got it rightly and people who entered such state knowing the consequences! Disgusting!!

  If some single mothers of today, has their brains intact, they won't be in that situation they are in today. Their is a big difference between a woman who ran out of an abused home with her children to remain alive for them, a girl who was raped and mistakenly got pregnant, those are the people my heart bleeds for, not for a young lady who saw the dangers and went ahead to test drive and now she is hooked blaming it on life and men, go get a brain and deal with what you got yourself into! Some young ladies these days dissapiont me!

The worst part is those who saw he is happily married but want to take a bite of the wealth their by tieing him close to their undies with pregnancy. Do you think, it is the way he treats you during friendship that he will continue treating you in marriage? You must be reasoning like a fool, if you feel so, get in there and the heat will become unbearably hot for you!!

  Even when I say, stay away form married men, they won't, my advice is, if you want to date any man, whether he is married, single or hiding his status, never you have sex with them without condoms till you know and see how serious he is to you. If he is married, have all the fun, enjoy the moment and don't forget your condom, if he is single, do same till he has proposed, seen your people, starts marriage rites. "USE YOUR BRAIN, DONT FORGET THEM"

Condoms can save a lot of things for you, bringing forth a child you can't raise is insane, if you think you can give birth for a married man and use the child to threaten him, the worst thing that can happen to you is when he tells his wife about it and both of them team up to frustrate your life .

For the married men hiding behind the curtains claiming single hood, I don't pity you people when a single lady who knows to play the game gives you a dose of your own bitter medicine to drink! Your own stupidity is the worst. Not being proud of your marriage is a big shame! You are nothing but a disgrace to your wife!