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Had I known that it will turn out this way, I wouldn't have put myself into this mess. Now I don't even know how to explain this to my husband.
The truth is that I did it because of money. I am in my 8th month pregnancy and we don't even have money to feed not to talk of buying baby things. My husband lost his job recently after we have spent almost everything on our wedding and I have been hustling to provide for the family.
In one of my hustles, I ran into my ex. Honestly I won't lie to you, this guy is responsible for my pregnancy. When my hubby lost his job, he also lost his erection because s3x was no longer in his schedule unlike him. My husband can f*ck for Africa and he can last very long but since he lost his job, he can't even last up to 4mins not to talk of satisfying me.
When I ran into my ex for financial assistance, he acted like a gentleman and told me to come the next day to his house for some money. He is married too but the wife works in a Bank, so she is the busy type. I was just desperate and really needed it. The next day, I went to his house and after explaining everything to him, I busted out crying because I was just bitter. He stood from his sit and came to where I sat to console me. He wiped my tears and told me not to worry that I will be fine. He hugged me and continued wiping my tears.
While he hugged me, I felt something strong on my laps and looked down only to discover he is already aroused and his d*ck is standing from his trouser.
Suddenly he grabbed my lips and kissed me. I swear, I couldn't resist it coupled with the fact that I have been s3x starved. I kissed him back and succumbed to his moves.
Within minutes we were on fire and I must be sincere with you, he banged me real good. That was how I took in. He was the one that impregnated me. After banging me, he gave me N20,000 and has been banging me even in my pregnancy. Do you know he had s3x last week Monday and gave me money too? My hubby doesn't know how I get the money that is keeping the family till now. I keep telling him that I am into networking business and he believes me.
Now I am in a tight corner right now. He sent me message that I should remember my EDD is very close, so he needs to be banging me every two days to make it easy for me to deliver without much pains, but my husband was with my phone and he read the message.
Since that day, his character towards me has changed. He is now giving me the silent treatment. I don't know what is his mind right now. I don't regret what I did because we nearly starved of hunger but now my husband seems to be aware, how exactly do you think I should approach this? "
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I will advice your hubby to use you for money rituals. You are heartless. You fuck outside as you like and will still use the money to cook food for the innocent man, thereby tiring him down more and more. The food you are giving him is food of bondage! Wicked woman.
ReplyDeleteThe man should just divorce you.
ReplyDeleteanother man got u pregnant? what supposed to be his first child. . Kaii!!!
Yes!!! the did has been done, can you kill her for her wrongdoing, to me all that is needed is solution which I only suggest to be a good and responsible wife from now.
ReplyDeleteFirstly she has to ignore her pride and go to the husband and confess her sins to him and then wait for him to do what ever he intends to.
Then criticizing her may not be the best cos she was highly tempted like any other person could be, then to other ladies, you all have to learn from this ladies mistake and avoid being a prey to such predicament.
Your husband is even acting like a calm gentleman. You mean he saw all that and all he did was change his attitude? My dear you need to confess to him since it's no longer a secret.
ReplyDeleteMeanwhile there are various ways of making a man who is emotionally down get his groove on, so you should've tried that as well. Some people would even prescribe watching porn for you and your hubby. It's a lesser evil don't you think?
It is unforgivable my dear, just tell him d truth , since he already know about it , by telling d truth God himself will forgive you, then I will tell you what nest to do to win his love back again ,
ReplyDeleteMadam I'm not here to judge you but your actions have added more sorrows to your husband considering his financial status. What you unleashed on him was pure wickedness.
ReplyDeleteTalking about stupidity. You didn't even feel any remorse for what you did, then why are you asking for ways to approach the situation? It has to start from your disposition w/in you first before anything. Out of all the million ways out to solve a problem, you choose to go see a ex and had sex w/him. This is a difficult issue and just hard to narrow ways to help you. I pray your husband can get over it which seems very impossible. He's not even the father of the unborn kid. I'd advice you to personally end the marriage to save the little integrity you may have. It all comes down to both of you on whatever the outcomes may be. However, start by being honest w/yourself, be remorseful of your act even though you thought that was for y'alls sake( in my opinion, that's a bad way to it), then communicate w/him and try to let him tell you his thoughts/feelings too.
ReplyDeleteYou are a bloody cheater! You are a betrayer. Do u think marriage is some kind of jok? Can't u understand & bear with ur husband? Or can't u fight this simple battle with ur husband? So what's the use of saying I DO at the alter? Devil really used u to charter this man's hope but i promise u, God is his strength. & he will over come u all. You are a disgrace to marriage. Wicked slot. Better start running for ur life because the wife of ur shameless ex is coming for u. & u don't even have common sense! Must u close ur husband's account before wedding? It's obvious ur mission in his life is just to dry clean this man. Now that u ve accomplished ur mission, can u please respect urself & pack out of his life for good so that the spirit of God can locate him? U are dirty & spirit of God don't dwell in a dirty environment. God is coming to sanitize this man & if don't move out of the way, Then consider urself a waste bin.
ReplyDeleteBitch!
Take it easy o
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